what does it mean when your fiance only gifts you cheap trinkets and yet he gives jewelry to his daughter?
Question by tam: what does it mean when your fiance only gifts you cheap trinkets and yet he gives jewelry to his daughter?
he’s divorced and we’ve been engaged for more than a year. he does not even bother to give me a ring or some symbolic token.
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Answer by aquarius
a person is worth more than anything… think about that.
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And you find this acceptable because???
He isn’t going to change how he treats you. Either this is acceptable to you or not. I would imagine there to the story than him just not showering you with jewelry. You get to choose how you are treated. If someone doesn’t treat you the way you expect to be treated, you do not have to associate with that person.
get off the fact he doesn’t give you something materialistic what counts is that you love the man and he loves you back.
not all men feel they needed to give a woman a ring to profess their love to them.
I personally think its cus he doesnt feel he needs to impress you..yet for whatever reason he si trying to impress his daughter. Materialistic items do not matter.
Huh? Are you sure your enegaged? talk to him.
If you don’t have a ring and a date, then you don’t have a fiance, hon.
His actions tell me that his daughter is first and foremost in his life, but I have a newsflash for you: That’s how it SHOULD BE !
His kid is forever. Wives are not (or he would have found a way to work it out with his daughter’s mom.)
If this isn’t a wake-up call, I don’t know what is.
More to the point is … why do you stay with him, when he isn’t generous with his affections? That is a deal breaker for me. BIG deal breaker.
Well, frankly, his daughter is his daughter. He probably doesn’t get to see her often, so he spoils her. Why are you being competitive?
It means dont waste your time.
You will always be wanting more from him if he cannot bother to give you what everyone knows is the acknowledgement of your engagement.
He should want everyone to look at your finger and see his commitment.
do material things buy more of your love? you should be content with the fact that he loves you, and he loves his daughter. and how do you know he doesn’t have some magnificent thing planned for you in the future?