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Question by tam: what does it mean when your fiance only gifts you cheap trinkets and yet he gives jewelry to his daughter?
he’s divorced and we’ve been engaged for more than a year. he does not even bother to give me a ring or some symbolic token.

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Answer by aquarius
a person is worth more than anything… think about that.

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ok, i dont know the entire story, but i will tell you what i know. on my side, it started last saturday, while having an important conversation with my fiance’s 7 year olf daughter – i told her that it would never be enough to tell her i would never leave, i had to prove it to her, for the rest of her life… and she said, "you mean you’ll never ever leave us? never?" and i said, "never, i promise." which is not a hard thing to keep and trust me, my fiance and i would never break that promise! anyway, last night, while he was driving her back to her mothers house, she mentioned that she thinks – actually, she said she knows itd her fault – that her mom and dad are divorced. when they got back to her mothers house, she said to both of them that she and her 4 year old sister dont get to spend enuf time with daddy and my fiance told her that those were the dates he and mommy and the lawyer agreed on (he gets the kids tues from 2-7:30; thurs from 2-9am friday morning,
and every other weekend, sat starting at 4pm-7:30pm sunday night) anyway, apparently her mother showed sofia a book of all the dates in which carmine had been late in the past and told her thats why she and andrea dont get to spend so much time with daddy and carmine said "well, why dont we have shared custody now" since he doesnt work and has all the time in the world.. which would give him 50/50 with the girls.. and, in front of the girls, she screamed, " I WILL NEVER GIVE YOU SHARED CUSTODY!" but i guess my question is, besides getting the daughters into counceling, and my fiance fighting for shared custody, what can we do for them? how can we help them? i am worried because those little girls are two very wonderful children and the absolute lights of my life, and his as well
also, these were not the days he wanted. he wants more time with his kids, but she got tuesday and sunday overnights taken away from him because of a couple times he was late in the past due to his business he owned, but now he doesnt own it and has all the time in the world to give to the kids.. and they miss their father.. who is she really punishing, him or the kids? the kids obviously…. so he is going to take her to court and fight for more custody, but i am still worried about the girls.. they only get to see their dad a total of 5.5 days a month, if you count the hours.. and they sleep for some of that time..

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ok, i dont know the entire story, but i will tell you what i know. on my side, it started last saturday, while having an important conversation with my fiance’s 7 year olf daughter – i told her that it would never be enough to tell her i would never leave, i had to prove it to her, for the rest of her life… and she said, "you mean you’ll never ever leave us? never?" and i said, "never, i promise." which is not a hard thing to keep and trust me, my fiance and i would never break that promise! anyway, last night, while he was driving her back to her mothers house, she mentioned that she thinks – actually, she said she knows itd her fault – that her mom and dad are divorced. when they got back to her mothers house, she said to both of them that she and her 4 year old sister dont get to spend enuf time with daddy and my fiance told her that those were the dates he and mommy and the lawyer agreed on (he gets the kids tues from 2-7:30; thurs from 2-9am friday morning,
and every other weekend, sat starting at 4pm-7:30pm sunday night) anyway, apparently her mother showed sofia a book of all the dates in which carmine had been late in the past and told her thats why she and andrea dont get to spend so much time with daddy and carmine said "well, why dont we have shared custody now" since he doesnt work and has all the time in the world.. which would give him 50/50 with the girls.. and, in front of the girls, she screamed, " I WILL NEVER GIVE YOU SHARED CUSTODY!" but i guess my question is, besides getting the daughters into counceling, and my fiance fighting for shared custody, what can we do for them? how can we help them? i am worried because those little girls are two very wonderful children and the absolute lights of my life, and his as well
also, these were not the days he wanted. he wants more time with his kids, but she got tuesday and sunday overnights taken away from him because of a couple times he was late in the past due to his business he owned, but now he doesnt own it and has all the time in the world to give to the kids.. and they miss their father.. who is she really punishing, him or the kids? the kids obviously…. so he is going to take her to court and fight for more custody, but i am still worried about the girls
hhmmm.. maybe i confused my words.. i am the girlfriend of the kids father… he does not get enuf time with the kids and their mother doesnt want to give him more… and i think that the girls need more time with their father.. they only see him 12 days a month, if you count it all out

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ok, i dont know the entire story, but i will tell you what i know. on my side, it started last saturday, while having an important conversation with my fiance’s 7 year olf daughter – i told her that it would never be enough to tell her i would never leave, i had to prove it to her, for the rest of her life… and she said, "you mean you’ll never ever leave us? never?" and i said, "never, i promise." which is not a hard thing to keep and trust me, my fiance and i would never break that promise! anyway, last night, while he was driving her back to her mothers house, she mentioned that she thinks – actually, she said she knows itd her fault – that her mom and dad are divorced. when they got back to her mothers house, she said to both of them that she and her 4 year old sister dont get to spend enuf time with daddy and my fiance told her that those were the dates he and mommy and the lawyer agreed on (he gets the kids tues from 2-7:30; thurs from 2-9am friday morning,
and every other weekend, sat starting at 4pm-7:30pm sunday night) anyway, apparently her mother showed sofia a book of all the dates in which carmine had been late in the past and told her thats why she and andrea dont get to spend so much time with daddy and carmine said "well, why dont we have shared custody now" since he doesnt work and has all the time in the world.. which would give him 50/50 with the girls.. and, in front of the girls, she screamed, " I WILL NEVER GIVE YOU SHARED CUSTODY!" but i guess my question is, besides getting the daughters into counceling, and my fiance fighting for shared custody, what can we do for them? how can we help them? i am worried because those little girls are two very wonderful children and the absolute lights of my life, and his as well
also, these were not the days he wanted. he wants more time with his kids, but she got tuesday and sunday overnights taken away from him because of a couple times he was late in the past due to his business he owned, but now he doesnt own it and has all the time in the world to give to the kids.. and they miss their father.. who is she really punishing, him or the kids? the kids obviously…. so he is going to take her to court and fight for more custody, but i am still worried about the girls
hhmmm.. maybe i confused my words.. i am the girlfriend of the kids father… he does not get enuf time with the kids and their mother doesnt want to give him more… and i think that the girls need more time with their father.. they only see him 12 days a month, if you count it all out
omg, i am an idiot… its really only a total of 5.5 days, if you do all the math for the hours that he gets them.. oops
bill i wanted to email u but i cant.. how am i makign matters worse? the ex is hurting the kids by not giving them more time with their father… they obviously miss him… and i have not done anything worng.. i have never badmouthed their mother and never would… however, i will be a stable person for them, and i will be a part of their lives so long as they want me to be… they love me, and i love them… i have done nothing worng and i dont understand where you think i have made matters worse?

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about a month after my son was born, my ex husband agreed to give up his rights and he filled out a surrender form. the form says, for those of you who dont know, that he has absolutely no legal obligation whatsoever to our son and it is also 100% irreversible. we also got a divorce that same day. all of this took place in las vegas, nv.
however, our son was born in boston, massachusetts. i now live in MA with my fiance. he tried talking to legal and they told him he had to file the surrender form in nevada because thats where my divorce was. but the legal in nevada said we had to file it in boston because its where the baby was born.
i just want to file this damn paper before my ex husband changes his mind!!

also, to those who want to judge…before you say ANYTHING, my ex husband put me in the hospital after only 2 weeks of marriage while i was 4 months pregnant and almost killed my child. hense, the surrender form. hes abusive.
i am technically a resident of nevada. and i lived there for almost 10 years.
and i didnt have a divorce attorney, i did an online divorce. i got the surrender form separately, but i did give the divorce place a copy of the paper he signed so i could get sole custody, which was granted.
but we signed the divorce papers AND the surrender form in front of a notary.
im still in the dark as of what to do here…

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